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How to do it

  1. Ask every guest about allergies and foods they do not eat when you invite them.
  2. Choose a main you have cooked successfully at least once.
  3. Pick one side that shares the oven with the main, and one cold salad or vegetable.
  4. Make or buy a dessert that is ready the day before.
  5. Limit the menu to one dish that needs stovetop attention while guests are there.
  6. Write the shopping list by store section and shop two days ahead.
  7. Write a timeline counting back from the time you want to serve, including preheating and resting.
  8. Set out a snack and drinks for the first half hour so you are not rushed.

Common mistakes

  • Trying a new recipe for the first time on the night.
  • Planning three dishes that all need the stove at the end.
  • Finding out about a guest's allergy when the food is served.

Quick self-check

Three questions. Your last score is kept in this browser.

1. Which main dish is best for a dinner party?
2. When should you ask about allergies?
3. How many dishes should need the stove while guests are there?

Teach this to someone

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