People and Etiquette: skills checklist

People and Etiquette: 19 skills, each with steps, a quiz and a printable checklist, covering handshakes, toasts, small talk, notes, tipping, table manners, apologies, funerals and de-escalation.

Social skills are the ones people notice first and forgive least, yet nobody teaches them directly. Introductions, toasts, thank-you notes and sympathy cards all follow simple structures that are easy to learn and remove most of the anxiety from the moment.

This category covers meeting people and keeping a conversation going, giving a toast or a best man speech, writing condolence and thank-you notes, tipping in the US, basic table manners, apologizing so it actually repairs things, being a good houseguest, and what to do and say at a funeral. Each page gives you the structure, the words to use and the phrases to avoid.

The last skill in the category is the most important one when things get tense: how to calm a heated situation and leave safely. It is about distance, a calm voice and a way out, and it deliberately teaches no physical technique. If anyone threatens violence or shows a weapon, the right move is to get away and call 911.