How to speak in public without freezing
To speak in public without freezing, decide the three points you want people to remember, open with a short story or question, and close by repeating the points. Practice out loud at least five times, timing yourself. On the day, breathe slowly before you start, speak a little slower than feels natural, pause between points, and look at a few friendly faces.
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How to do it
- Write down the one thing you want the audience to do or remember, and three supporting points.
- Open with a short story, a question or a surprising fact that leads into the first point.
- Close by repeating your three points and the one thing to remember.
- Put key words, not full sentences, on cards or slides.
- Practice out loud at least five times, timing it and cutting anything that runs over.
- Before you start, stand steady and take three slow breaths, out longer than in.
- Speak slower than feels natural, and pause between points instead of saying um.
- Look at one friendly face at a time around the room, and accept that nerves are normal.
Common mistakes
- Writing out every word and reading it aloud.
- Cramming in ten points.
- Rushing because you are nervous.
- Practicing only in your head.
Quick self-check
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Teach this to someone
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What to say
To speak in public without freezing, decide the three points you want people to remember, open with a short story or question, and close by repeating the points. Practice out loud at least five times, timing yourself. On the day, breathe slowly before you start, speak a little slower than feels natural, pause between points, and look at a few friendly faces.
What to show, in order
- Write down the one thing you want the audience to do or remember, and three supporting points.
- Open with a short story, a question or a surprising fact that leads into the first point.
- Close by repeating your three points and the one thing to remember.
- Put key words, not full sentences, on cards or slides.
- Practice out loud at least five times, timing it and cutting anything that runs over.
- Before you start, stand steady and take three slow breaths, out longer than in.
- Speak slower than feels natural, and pause between points instead of saying um.
- Look at one friendly face at a time around the room, and accept that nerves are normal.
The check question
Ask: How many main points should a short talk have?
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